If I Speak

Self-Control

46: Porn is everywhere. How damaging is it really?

07: What do straight men know about dating?

10: Do I have to be nice to my friend’s partner?

48: Is it time to cut off my lying dad?

29. Has therapyspeak improved our lives?

33: What makes you embarrassed to be leftwing?

98: Are we obsessed with having our feelings validated?

105: How can I connect during sex?

24: Help! What’s my purpose in life?

26: I’m so sorry, I’m English

50: The return of the slur

53: Getting ‘the ick’

56: The one where Moya grills Ash on her new book

73: Where did it all go wrong on the dancefloor?

99: How do you know when it’s time to quit?

History

100: We’re 100 episodes old – ask us anything!

114: Why we can’t let go of the girl boss

37: Do you believe in ghosts?

55: Joy is an act of resistance… right?

54: Forget the boycott, gimme that brand deal

72: Why does it always have to be me taking responsibility?

103: Will getting back to nature heal my feelings of burnout?

25: I hate the way that you walk, I hate the way that you talk

30: Unbothered, moisturised, happy – and ready for a relationship?

32: What makes a house a home?

38: Why is Andrew Tate’s manosphere so seductive? w/ Matt Shea and Jamie Tahsin

42: Why won’t they just break up?

68: Help! My housemate is a pig

93: I’m addicted to guilt. What’s wrong with me?

95: Does British culture need saving? w/ Lanre Bakare

104: Why are young Brits flocking to Dubai?

09: Should you ever shag a Tory?

27: I’m in big trouble! Your dilemmas answered

A message from Moya…

31: Why isn’t my best friend excited about my wedding?

40: Do aesthetic trends offer clues to political shifts?

49: We need to see more wrinkles on screen!

62: I’m not sure I want to call myself a feminist anymore…

69: Is marriage a hard border? w/ Jeremy Atherton Lin

75: The world needs more flirting. Here’s how

107: Do we love success but hate ambition?

108: Is it time to quit your job? w/ William Rayfet Hunter

03: The dating trap

13: I’m the problem, it’s me

20: Skinny Is Back In Fashion. FFS!

21: What does it take to be effortlessly cool?

23: Surviving your Saturn return

11: Help! My partner’s too posh